These past few days, I've been kinda caught up with something (more accurately, someone... ;) ). Still nothing going on yet though. I guess things always will take their natural progression no matter how fast or slow. But at least I am upfront huh? :D
Anyways, I've been doing a lot of self reflection lately. It really is the small things in life that matter. Most of us (if not all of us) are always out there scurrying around trying to accomplish things. But really. For what end? If one completes tasks for the sake of completing it, why bother right? It's passion that separates those who want to do something, and those who want to do something well. What is the distinction? I think it is the small things. By voicing out a small short sentence, it could possibly be the defining moment of doing the job to be over with it, or doing the job and wanting it done well (like it actually mattered to you).
But which do people prefer? That's something that you'll have to see for yourself. There are people with strong expectations for others to finish what is theirs. Actually that could possibly be all of us no? But then that group can be divided by those who simply follow, and those who are a bit more proactive (try to lead or help steer the way). But how does one know who wants which? Again, it's the small things you have to look for. Are things in a rush (aka is it the time and place)? How big of an impact do you think you can make? These are all things that are seemingly small, but could potentially exponentially create big ripples.
Though it really isn't just limited to work place. Even everyday life, the small things still apply. If you don't look out for them, you may risk just walking through life without knowing about it. You may miss out on having the chance of meeting a wonderful somebody who was there all along right in front of you (as I am kinda learning).
It's sometimes maddening on how such a small thing like a short sentence, a gesture, or a small occurrence can make or break all of your hard work. But these "small things" are a sword that cuts both ways. As with all things, there is a concept of internal and external controls. The small gestures and acts that you have control over (sacrificing your seat for the elderly, donating to the needy, smiling to those around you, etc) and those that you don't have (when you were born, where you are at what time - to a certain extent, and all of the other "unfortunates").
For me personally, I have suffered greatly at the stupid "small things" (PWNT by people that was loved and trusted usually) but at the same time it has also brought me much joy (rediscovering someone who turned out to have a lot of things similar, actually being thanked by people who was helped, witnessing acts of kindness by others, catching lucky breaks, etc). But then again, who hasn't lived through this thing called life right. I am pretty sure that there is more pain and joy in store for me when it comes to these "small things". I asked a good buddy of mine (as we were chatting over a meal), if pain was a risk but happiness was the prize for success, and you have tasted pain and defeat before, would it be enough for you to "quit" the game? Naturally, everyone tries to avoid/reduce pain whenever and as much as possible. I don't think a majority of people are pain loving peons right? Plus wouldn't the prize be worth the risk? Theoretical happiness until the end of days (and beyond)? Generations have played this game and have succeeded (each and everyone of us is a testament to that I guess - in a sense). So who are we to stand against such statistics.
Live life to the fullest. Enjoy all the trials and tribulations that it has to offer (regardless if you had or had no hand in it). It is much better than a "perfect" and boring life. :)
